Strip Clubs are the ultimate places for guys to hang out. You can hang out with your friends, drink a beer or two, and get a few lap dances from your favorite entertainer. There was always a certain etiquette that my friend and I tried to follow and that was always built around respect for the dancer.
Dancing in a strip club is a vocation she chose and she is there to try to earn a living. That being said, it is also my money and I get to choose who I spend it on so the respect needs to be a mutual thing. I am more apt to spend money on a dancer who shows a willingness to sit down and talk with me for a few minutes and make an effort to get to "know" me. The girls that blow by and ask if I want a dance and never say a word to me is a real downer. There is a lot to be said for the art of conversation.
I have met a lot of interesting dancers over the years. I have met several that were in law school and they almost made me want to get arrested but, not in the club, and I needed to wait until they got out of Law School. I met another girl who had double majored in Chemical Engineering and Biology at North Carolina State and yet she made more money dancing. I consider myself a reasonably intelligent person but she made me feel like my Master's Degree Diploma was written in crayon. I met one girl recently who believed in reincarnation. She believed she had been a 12 year old Polish girl in a Concentration Camp in WW II. It was a real pleasure talking to these women and they went far beyond the realm of just being dancers.
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